51 years

Fifty-one (51) years ago today, Saturday, August 16th, Judy and I were married.  The ceremony took place in the First Baptist Church of Eufaula, Oklahoma.  It was officiated by Judy's Uncle.  We "honeymooned" in Branson, Missouri.  That was before Branson became an entertainment community.  Back then it was a quaint, lovely and small fishing village nestled beside a beautiful river and lake.  Our first apartment was over the garage of Mr. and Mrs. DeGraffenreed's.  Mr. DeGraffenreed kept a small herd of goats fenced in behind the garage.  His daughter worked at Oklahoma Baptist University so Judy would ride with her to the OBU each morning and afternoon.  Judy was completing her Senior year at OBU with a major in Business Administration and Religious Education.   I'd take our old Mercury to Norman, about 40 miles west, where I was working on my Master's Degree in Educational Psychology at the University of Oklahoma.  A year later, we had both graduated.  We loaded all of our "worldly goods" in our new 1964 Volkswagen "beetle" and headed to Louisville, Kentucky, and Southern Seminary.  Kentucky was a new world because I had never been further east than western Missouri.  I wanted to go to Southern Seminary because I was interested in Pastoral Counseling and studying with Dr. Wayne Oates.  The first phone call in our Seminary Village apartment was from Dr. Oates and he wasn't calling for me.  He called for Judy because he was seeking to hire a secretary as the Director of Graduate Studies at the Seminary. Judy's Pastor in Eufaula, Oklahoma, had called Dr. Oates and told him that we (more importantly Judy) were headed for the Seminary.  Judy had a job as his Secretary before I even knew what he looked like.  Funny how things sometimes work out.  Tonight we are going to our favorite Lexington restaurant as we thank God for 51 years.  My monk friend at the Abbey says that we qualify for the vow of stability.